I came across this article (http://worthilymagnify.com/2014/08/12/when-to-speak/) which talked about when to speak up or not. Admittedly, I don't do a lot of thinking...lol I just say what's on my mind most of the time. So in reading this article, I liked how sometimes I won't be the right person to talk to someone; or that I may be the right person but it is not the right time to say it. You see, that takes A LOT of thinking in whether I should say something or not. And even so, will I be saying the right thing in the right way??? Sometimes, it is very hard to speak the truth in love. Sometimes, it's not even the truth that I'm speaking about but other irrelevant things. So in essence, I liked how the author (Jamie) asks these questions: "(1) Am I the right person? (2) Is this the right thing to say? (3) Is this the right time to say it? (4) Am I saying it in the right way?"
I'm pretty sure that if I ask these questions on my mind before I say or don't say anything, loool I'm gonna look so frustrated - but a good frustrated I suppose :P
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